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Sunday, August 14, 2011

Miss Jocelyn


*Birthday girl drinking out of the special "Birthday Cup"

Dear Jocelyn,

Today you are four. You awoke to your room covered in balloons with a few streamers gliding across your walls. You were delighted, but I don’t think you fully understood that today was your birthday. For breakfast you had Lucky Charms, which you have been begging for ever sense we went camping last month. You ate all the marshmallows but then you actually at the “whole grain” part as well. I was really impressed. But I don’t think you got that it was your birthday.

We would tell you that, today you are four. and you would reply, “No, I not four yet, I still three.

On our way to church we sang the Hansen Family Birthday song. Which you happily sang along with, and then reminded us that Grandpa Robbie’s birthday was over.

At Church you gave your very first talk in Primary. How proud you were to sit in the special chair at the front marked, “TALK”. Today was your day. All smiles and courage as you waited for your turn to talk. Your topic was, “Our body is a Temple.” I held up a picture of the temple and whispered to you what to say. Like a little mouse you, in your most quiet voice repeated my lines. Holding up different things, like play fruit and vegetables, Sharing cards, and a little dog, telling the primary different ways we can keep our bodies healthy and clean. I was so proud. You were not nervous but maybe a little shy. You did so good. If only the primary presidency had turned on the microphone.

You and your sister slept in the car and at home for an hour or so while I wrapped presents and watched Jane Eyre for the third time. You awoke and saw them and immediately wanted to open them. We explained not until Brooke was awake. Being the logical child that you are, you disappeared and five minutes later I heard the tears of a sleepy sister that was now awake and ready for presents.

Lets just say, “Kid, you scored.”

A brownie cake with purple frosting and My Little Pony sitting on top, is frankly what you ate for dinner. I tried to throw some fruit into your belly and I think you at half an orange and small cup of juice. It’s your birthday, I am not worried today.

You spoke to so many family members today. All singing Happy Birthday. You laughed and smiled. While on the phone with your aunt you finally understood that it was your birthday. We told you were four again, and you stopped looked up at me and said,
"I am?"
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(Mm-hmm)
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"I am four, I not three anymore?"
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...I got bigger?"
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(big smile)
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"It's my birthday! I am turning four!"
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(You ran around the room shouting)
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"IT'S MY BIRTHDAY, I AM FOUR, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!"

You are sleeping at last. My darling sweet girl, who every night sings to me;

“I love you forever

I like you for always

As long as I am living

My mommy you’ll be”

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Miss Brooks, Your Story

*Just a little warning to those reading, I am writing down everything I remember before it is gone, so if knowing about enemas or afterbirth is going to be an issue I advise you to check back tomorrow. *
Today you are two and I have yet to write down the story of your birth. So here it goes.
You were scheduled five days before your due date because I knew we were moving across the country in two months and I wanted to make sure you were healthy and I was "healed" before we got on a long airplane ride.
My induction was scheduled for midnight. Which now that I think about is totally ridiculous, why I didn't schedule for early that night or later that morning is beyond me.
I felt great. I was so excited to meet you, know what you were going to look like, hear your voice, see if you fit the name I had picked out in my head. Before we went to the hospital I remember hanging with Katie DeMartini in her apartment knowing that I was going to have you "hopefully" in the next twenty four hours. I was calm but excited and nervous all together. Knowing that you scheduled for delivery is so less stressful, then wondering if any minute you are going to burst into labor. I have I have the option, I would do it again.
Your father and I arrived a little late and were admitted through the ER doors at Santa Barbara Cottage Hospital. They put me in a wheel chair and sent me on back to our delivery room. We were laughing and joking around, it was a really relaxed and wonderful atmosphere.
By 1:00am they started me on a low dose of pitocin, and I when the nurse check me, I was already dilated to a four and I was almost fully effaced. I believe you would have been born in the next day or two anyway. I asked for an enema because I really really didn't want to poop on you during delivery, and honestly it makes the next few days so much easier.
By 1:30am we were sleeping, me in my big fancy bed dressed in a hospital gown, monitors, and arms full of ivy fluids. The nurse would come in every hour or so to check wake me up and check on how you were doing. I loved listening to the sound of your strong heart, but I did not love being woken up. Seriously why didn't I start this at 8 in the morning?
Around 7:30 we woke up, and the contractions were strong but manageable. We were tired but still, I remember thinking, "This isn't as bad as I remember."

Around 8am the nurse scheduled changed and with great luck we were given Jenny. Our birth coach when we had Jocelyn. She is without a doubt the most wonderful nurse in the world. Everything I did was "beautiful" and "wonderful". She made me feel like a rockstar, and even babysat me for a few minutes so that Ben could go grab something to eat from the cafeteria.
We were better prepared this time for labor, so we brought a DVD player for me. I think I got about half way through Pirates of the Caribbean. As the morning went on we were progressing a little slowly, I bounced on the yoga ball and walked around the room a little bit. I was feeling brave and ready for action so I asked the nurse to turn up the pitocin because I could handle it. It worked. By noon my doctor had arrived and we he was checking up on my progress. Ben was watching the French Open, and I was really feeling the contractions now. When one hit, It felt like my lower back was being slammed with a gladiator-style mace that was then kneaded into my muscles a burly man stirring bread dough on Cake boss.

At 1pm my doctor asked if I wanted an epidural. I was dilated to a 7, and I was running out of time if I wanted one before I reached the point of no return. My epidural with Jocelyn had been such a relief, and even though this labor was easier then I remember the first one being I knew it was going to be worse, and so I chickened out and one was ordered. But I asked for a "lite" one. Just something to take the edge off. I wanted to be able to feel more then just pressure this time so that I could push harder. I was determined not to push you out for hours. Jenny eased my worry by saying that I had ordered one at the just the perfect time. Seriously she was fantastic. I wonder if she makes house calls to Oregon? The needle was bigger and hurt more then last time, but soon I was juicin' and I continued on through active labor for about another hour and a half.

At 3pm I was fully dilated and Dr. Zaki broke my water, and I was frankly shocked about how much there was. I felt like a runaway hose. Okay that was gross but it is how I felt. It was time to start pushing. I asked them to bring in a mirror so that I could see. I was so nervous, I pushed Jocelyn for almost 4 hours and I was terrified to do it again. But luckily you were out in twenty minutes. This time I sat up a little higher in the bed and held on to the sheets they gave me for support. I was in better shape when I had you and I felt the difference. Now this was definitely a "lite" epidural because honeslty I am not sure how much I DIDN'T feel. I can not express to you the pain and discomfort of pushing a child out our V-Jay-Jay, even when "the edge" has been taken off. The mirror had been bumped so I couldn't see you, but I asked your father, well, I sort of hollered at your father if you had hair. He said yes. I was ready for my last push, your head was out but your body was in and that was the craziest feeling the moment between those last two contractions I don't think I could ever forget. I believe I screamed, "Get her out! Get her out!" And I think everyone laughed at me. One hard push with some ladies tennis like grunting and you were free. You felt like and pooping out a squid through my V-Jay-Jay.

At 3:23pm, you made your entrance to this world, 7lbs 14oz 19 inches long. You were silent, with a quisitive brow, looking around the room they way you do with your big blue eyes like "Really, this is what it is all about"? Taking it all in before you made your opinion on the matter. I thought it was sort of hilarious but the doctor wanted to make sure you were okay so he had us tickle your feet until you cried, which you did and it was the most beautiful little sound in the world. I looked at you and you were a Brooklyn Violet, your own person with thoughts and feelings and dreams. I loved you so much then, but I can promise you that I love you more each and everyday.
I am overjoyed to have you in my life and every second I spend with you I love you more.
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Then
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Now
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What a beautiful, intelligent, sweet girl you are, you are.
What a beautiful girl you are.

Miss Brooks


Morning started with Waffles covered in pears, ice cream, raspberry sauce, whipped cream and sliced almonds.

Not bad.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Turning Two Dilemma

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Brooke will turn two in exactly nine days.
I have no idea what to do.
Our move in date is up in the air.
But I am pretty sure our house will be filled with boxes by then.
I really want to do something special, but if I wait, the end of June it gets crazy.
Father's day, Ben's Birthday, moving into our house.
I have all of these ideas to celebrate my little chicken.
Because, I really really like her.
She fills my heart with so much love and joy every time I look at her.
I feel like I need to fight to keep her from suffering from middle child syndrome.
And every year Jocelyn's parties, well, have been ridiculous.
But then I remember that she is turning two, and it doesn't take a lot to make her feel special.


Leah's party hosted by my hilarious long lost cousin Katie has set the bar for "birthdays while moving" pretty high. You should check it out.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Happy Birthday Maranda!

Happy Birthday to my Darling Littlest Sister Maranda!
(her birthday was last Saturday but I was in a sick fog)

She is precious and I can't wait to play with her this summer!

Happy Belated Birthday Princess!
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Thursday, March 17, 2011

Happy Birthday Tracy

Happy Birthday to my fabulous Sister in Law Tracy.

She is fantastic!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

This and That

Hi. It's been a while.
It's been a long, eventful two weeks.
Let me explain,
There is no time.
Let me sum up,
"Buttercup is going to marry Humperdink in a little less than half an hour..."

No,
Wrong series of events.

Since we spoke last.

I turned 28.
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Went to the Zoo with my family and had an excellent time.

girls at the zoo

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Had the best cupcake of my life.
(True story)

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Bought pretty things at Anthropologie for my Birthday.

Almost pulled out of building the house. :(

Ben gave his first midterm.
(it was harder than he thought)

Figured out a way to keep the house. :)
(fingers crossed they accept our new terms)

Ate more cake, and fondue
ooooh the fondue.

Had dinner with friends, twice.

Attended a Valentines Party for the girls
(Jocelyn helped make Valentines and cookies)

Hosted by the divine Jessica.

valentines party

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And finally... got a dog.
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His name is Strider
Future King of Gondor
We know...
We're nerds.

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We love him,

and he has only peed on the carpet twice.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Happy Birthday Mom!

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Happy Birthday Nana Kat!

We love and miss you so very much!
Can't wait to see you this summer.

With love,
Rileigh, Ben, Jocelyn and Brooke!

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

happy birthday grandma judy

...Yesterday.
Today,
and all Week!

We Love You Forever!

Monday, September 27, 2010

Birthday Festival

This party was insane on every level. We had it two days before we moved across the country. We wanted to throw a big bash to say goodbye to our dear friends in Maryland. For the last two weeks we had been living at the cousins house while they were out of town. Jeri and Lincoln came home a few days before and had all been together as one big crazy family for days. Any sane person would have bought a cake at Costco and called it a day. But that's not how we roll.

This party would not have happened without Jeri, she was AMAZING! She worked pretty stinking hard for a party that wasn't even for her own child. Major props to Ben and Lincoln for cleaning up the backyard and turning the dinosaur pinata into a dragon. (the one ordered online didn't make it on time)

And so it goes...

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We had set up several little play stations for our nine princesses and two knights and a prince.

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(The knights must have been fighting in the crusades during this picture)

The Royal Jewelers
I tried to let Jocelyn do her own thing, I may have helped a little :)
making crowns
White pre-cut paper crowns from Michaels spray painted gold ($2.95 for 12), a bag of beautiful play jewels on clearance and you have your self a bunch of very happy princesses.

The Armory

What would a Royal Festival be without at an Armory? An empty deck across the yard made for the perfect "contained" fighting space. I bought three swords at Walmart (and my girls attack their father daily) and Wyatt had an arsenal that he was more than happy to share.

princess and the sword

the fighters

The Jester's Paint Shop
This was our most popular booth! As soon as I brought out the paint set the girls lined up to have their face painted (I think I will do this for every party in the future so great!) Face painting kit from Michaels (50% off coupon)

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Not wanting the King to feel left out Jocelyn and Simone did a little painting of their own.

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The Royal Bubblery
Lots bubble wands made from pipe cleaners and bubble juice. It was fantastic!

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A View of the Party before it started. We called the Jungle Gym the Dragon's Lair (sword fights happened here too) In the back you can see the Armory, the Jesters Paint Shop and the Royal Bubblery.


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I have a confession to make, last week Jocelyn got in trouble (not serious) for "decorating" the living room walls, it wasn't exactly her fault. You see she had done it once before...

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We (Jeri) blew up a picture from the Princess and the frog from this website and taped the pages together. I think it was 12 pieces of paper total. The girls LOVED it!
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It was announced that an Evil Dragon had come to the castle and stolen the gold, it was up to the brave princess and princes and knights to get it back.

Off we went on a Dragon Hunt

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This was so easy and so fun. As the boys were setting up I lead a dragon hunt around the block. Every few steps we stopped to search for dragon clues, preform dragon dances, share our favorite colors, discuss dragon eating habits, hide from dragons flying over head and any other random thing I could think of while we were stalling. The kids got so into it, the bigger kids helping the smaller ones along the way. It really was quite precious.

It was time to slay the dragon with a flaming sword!
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Wyatt's dragon slaying blow!
The treasure rained down on the the little guests to squeals of delight.

After all the slaying it was time to Feast.

And what a Feast it was...

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more food

The cake was a labor of love and a whole lot of fun!I searched for pictures on the internet of different cakes trying to find one I could make without fondant (too intimidating). The towers are sugar cones and cake cones dipped in a sugar cookie glaze several times until they were properly coated. The pictures don't really do it justice. It was really spectacular and Jocelyn tells everyone she meets about her "Seeping Booty Castle Cake".

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Picnik collage
It was late the night before and Jeri and I had a good time making signs for all the food and play stations. My favorite was "Knights of the Round Pizza."

They liked it
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Those towers were the most requested Item! Everyone wanted a piece including a little sleeping beauty who had just woken up from her nap.

eating the towers

By this time everyone (especially the moms) were exhausted. Presents were given (and Jocelyn scored) and then it was time for goodbyes. It was such a good party and everyone had a marvelous time! Next year... she is getting a cake from Costco ;)

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Acknowledgments

Jocelyn- You are our little princess of light and we love every second of you. We had so much fun planning and putting this party together for you. We LOVE you darling! Happy Birthday!
Ben- Thank you for putting up with this, being at my beck-n-call, making the pizzas and supporting me in making this wonderful party... and paying for it. I love you.
Jeri- Thank you for letting us trash your house, staying up late to help me make everything, laughing with me when the cake was growing through some "technical difficulty", Taking the pictures and being my Diana Berry.
Mom- Thank you for inspiring me as a child and sharing your wonderfully creative ideas with me through out my life.
Susan Richards- who taught a cake decorating class when I was in the fourth grade. She taught me about the crumb layer and how to make the frosting smooth.
Google- You Rock!
Lincoln- Thanks for hanging out at a kids party because I know you don't do that :)
Wyatt, Natalia, Simone- For doing everything we asked you that morning without complaining!
Catherine- For putting on a wonderful dance performance and entertaining the kids when we needed a minute and for just being wonderful in general.
Maggie- For showing up three weeks after having a baby.
Katie- For driving over an hour in traffic to be there.
Christina- for being our first friends in Maryland.
Jazmine- You were there in spirit!
We love and miss you all!

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What kinda party would it be with out a few tears ;)

Thursday, September 9, 2010

kiki, kikikans, keekers, you're old!

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It's a good thing your pretty.
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Happy Birthday Darling!

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Skylar, you're 12...

happy birthday skylar
and we think that is Awesome!
We love you forever dear little sister!
Happy Birthday!

PS Jocelyn assisted with the "decorations"

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

birthday bro

Birthday Joe
Happy Birthday Joe
You Rock

Friday, August 20, 2010

princess and the frog

princess and the frog

guess it worked!

Saturday, August 14, 2010

little bug little princess


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Dear Jocey Rose Hansen,

Today you turned three, and what a magical, amazing, crazy, wonderful day it was. You were surrounded by people who love you very much and had the best birthday a princess could ask for. I promise to tell you more about it soon. Today was a very good day.
I can't believe how wonderful it is watching you grow up. You are so smart and funny and always pushing the limit, (an inherited trait). You are also loving and sweet, thoughtful and helpful. You love to help me with chores around the house and any project I am working on. I love your stories and dress up games. Most meals you are an animal of some kind and dinner becomes "puppy food" or "elephant food".
You are so good with Brooke and shower her with hugs and kisses. When she is sad you make silly faces until she laughs a big belly laugh and the two of you dance away together. I am so proud of the little girl that you are and I look forward many more wonderful birthdays to celebrate today.

Love,

Mom
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