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Friday, November 18, 2011

Dear Professor- our morning without you

Dear Professor Hansen,

This is how our friday has gone without you.

6:24 Girls wake up and come and get in bed with me.
6:29 I put them both back in their room and say, "See you at 7".
7:08 I hear a minor crash and go running in. Jocelyn hit her hip jumping from bed to bed.
7:15 Making chocolate french toast for breakfast. Jocelyn sets the table. Brooke plays with toys on the counter.
7:21 It starts snowing... sort of, it's slushy and won't stick. We let Strider in the backyard for #1. He comes back covered in ice. The girls laugh as he shakes it off.
7:28 Dressed in a fuzzy pink bathrobe, brown moccasins, and a blue apron I throw the ball for Strider in the front yard. It's freezing and still a little rainy (sleeting has stopped) So it on the rocking bench on the porch and throw from there.
7:31 Two little girls follow me outside and sit next to me on the bench.
7:32 They both go back inside.
7:34 Brooke comes back with her plate of food, fork and cup of Emergency water. Takes her seat on the bench. Jocelyn comes back dragging the blanket off the couch and two puppy toys.
7:35-7:42 We sit more comfortably on the rocking on the bench while Strider chases the ball and finishes his business.
7:44 Strider shakes off in the hallway, I wipe him down with a towel, and all the walls as well.
7:50 Girls start a bath for them selves. Strider eats, I blog about our morning.
8:03 Brooke runs out of the bath naked waving her arms in the air.
8:04 Brooke returns to the bathroom with this.

Quack

To be continued...

Monday, October 10, 2011

Bed Time Stories

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I love him.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

The men in my life

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grandpa robbie

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grandpa dale

grandpa max

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jared

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Happy Father's Day
and Future Father's Day, to the wonderful men in my life.
(they are so handsome, don't you think?)
And especially to you my love.

I love you all.

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

POW

I have no idea what POW this is.


But I like it.
This picture was taken while I watched on from the tub.

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

the professor the expert

The Professor has done it again. This time he has been featured in the New York Post for a very serious paper that we co-wrote with our friend Matt Lang. I am so proud of them!

How high school fosters suicide

Last Updated: 3:29 AM, May 21, 2011

Posted: 11:17 PM, May 20, 2011



Every two hours, a teenager in America takes his or her own life. Suicide is the third leading cause of death among youth, and the rate of teen suicide has roughly tripled since 1960, the year I was born.

The heightened risk of suicide among gay teens has recently pulled the issue into the national spotlight, especially the "It Gets Better" campaign initiated by Dan Savage, but the rates for all teens are astonishingly high.

What is behind our high rates of youngsters taking their own lives?

Scientists have identified many contributing factors: Discrimination, the number of sexual partners, substance abuse, being dumped by a romantic partner, parental divorce, child physical and sexual abuse, bullying and even excessive video-gaming play a role.
Scholars at the University of Chicago's National Opinion Research Center have offered a novel contributing factor to teen suicide: high school.

In a careful and persuasive paper released last fall called "Back to School Blues: Seasonality of Youth Suicide and the Academic Calendar," Benjamin Hansen and Matthew Lang point out that suicides for 14- to 18-year-olds drop abruptly during June, July and August.

"The decrease in suicides for 14- to 18-year-olds during the summer months is stark, while the 19- to 25-year-olds see a slight rise in suicide rates during the summer," the authors point out.

"The fact that 15- to 18-year-old suicide rates decrease in the summer, but the 19-year-old suicide does not, suggests that the high-school calendar is playing a prominent role in youth suicide," they conclude.

Suicide isn't the only violent act teens are more likely to commit while school is in session. A 2003 National Bureau of Economic Research paper, "Are Idle Hands the Devil's Workshop? Incapacitation, Concentration and Juvenile Crime," by Brian Jacob and Lars Lefgren, used the natural variation produced by teacher in-service days to estimate whether school increased or decreased juvenile crime.

The answer? School attendance appeared to increase violent juvenile crime by almost 30 percent.

How could more time in school lead to more violence and suicide?

Hansen and Lang point to the "stress" created by the high school environment, but they also point out: "Although research has shown that alcohol consumption, poor self-esteem and sexual activity [are] related to youth suicide, there is little discussion about the fact that these risky behaviors tend to originate at school."

Jacob and Lefgren call it a "concentration" effect. Schools are places where the teens much outnumber the adults, and the peer-driven social interactions raise the risk of violence.

"Lord of the Flies," in other words.

Adolescents torture each other, they fear for their place in social heirarchies of their own making, tempt one another to abuse drugs and alcohol and to engage in short-term sexual activity that results in anger, jealousy and (when dumped) depression.

We group children into large schools primarily for bureaucratic convenience. But teens do better when they spend more time with adults, who are civilized -- and less time interacting in cultures created by peers, who aren't yet.

It makes you wonder why anyone ever objects to home-schooling.



Read more: http://www.nypost.com/p/news/opinion/opedcolumnists/how_high_school_fosters_suicide_VMtNhOBNUDqUdabVz6V4bO#ixzz1NyOWzeQD

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Mothers Day 2011

I am so grateful for Mother's Day.
I heard a quote in church today that made me so happy,
"If you don't have a sense of humor you have no buisness having children".
I have to tell you that this has just changed my life.
I have felt so overwhelmed the last few months and I am sorry to admit that I have been harder on my children then I should have.
Boy do I love them. Even though seven times a day I stop Brooke from turning on the Dishwasher regardless of the dishes in there. Or need three towels to clean up the bathroom after Jocelyn takes bath.
I choose now to laugh.
Laugh at the persistence of my two independent spirits.
My sneaky ninjas that eat brown sugar with a spoon under the table when I am folding laundry. or are constantly looking for an escape route from where ever we are playing and heading into the street.
But they light up when they see me after a nap, or when I pick them up from their classes at church.
When they throw their arms around me and crash their little bodies into my chest I am so overwhelmed with love for them that I cannot imagine anyone loving anything more then I love them.
I am grateful to be their mother here on earth.
That I have been given the gift of watching them grow and develop, laugh play and love.
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I am grateful for Mother and Grandmother, the hilarious wonderful woman who set an example for me and who constantly support and inspire me with their strength, creativity and love.
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And to Mama Hansen, who has loved me as a daughter from day one.
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And finally to my wonderful Husband. Who made me a mother.
I love him more every day... especially when he makes rollie-ups for breakfast.
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Saturday, April 16, 2011

Inside the Pleasantree

I can't believe it has already been a whole week since we were at the Treesort.

The morning light inside the tree was divine.
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Our bed was a mattress up in the loft. The view out our window.
The View

looking down at the cabin below.
The view below

Need to use the restroom?
Hang up your clothes?
Wash your hands?
Behind the curtain was toilet and shower.
No need to go across the suspension bridges in the morning.
Inside Cabin

The tree ran right through the middle of the cabin.
You can see the sink bumped up next to it above.
holding it all together

There was a heater inside the cabin so we were plenty warm at all times.
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The whole thing was really quite spectacular.
The wood was so beautiful.
Warm and cozy.
inside the cabin

Future family reunion spot?
I think so.

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Zip-lining

This may be our new favorite thing to do.
Ever.
myspace image at Gickr

You can do it here.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

POW 11

Oh and we did some of this.
flying

It was terrifying.
and
Fantastic.

Getting Away

Last month was our anniversary.
6 years.
It was all planned.
A secret getaway, just me and the professor.
The girls were going to stay at a friends house over night. (were doing a kid swap)
It was going to be perfect.
and then I got sick... really sick.

But then I got better and yesterday we went.

It was AMAZING!
I have 400 pictures to go through.
So I thought I would share just one.

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Oh, did I mention that we stayed in tree-house.
35feet off the ground.

Yes it was AMAZING!

Monday, January 31, 2011

POW 5

chucks and a kilt

My man in Chucks and a Kilt.

The story on that later.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Yo Gabba Gabba Date

Monday night the Professor took Jocelyn out on a date. She was very excited, she is aware now that the Professor takes me out on dates without her. I get dressed up and she stays with a babysitter. So when it was her turn you can only imagine. She told me over and over again that I was staying home and she was going on a date with Daddy. (he has taken her out on several dates but this was the first one since moving to Oregon)

We told her she was going to a show but didn't say which one.

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Ben said it was AMAZING and that Jocelyn had a fantastic time. When she came home she told me, "Mommy, I see the REAL Foofa!" I am so so so glad they did this. And only a little jealous ;).

Next year it will be a family affair.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

surprises in the mail

Today we got a package from The Professor's parents
who rock
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A lot!
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the note said, "It is someone's birthday somewhere, feel better soon!"
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It was filled with loads of little treats,
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Thanks for dinner ;)

WE LOVE YOU!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

weekly musings of yester year: babymoon

When I was pregnant with Jocelyn we went on a baby-moon. It was our last chance to have a vacation kids free for awhile and so a cruise to Mexico was planned. Ben's cousin worked for Princess cruises and so we took advantage of the family discount (Andrew we miss that... a lot). We spent seven fun filled days traveling to Puerto Vallarta, Mazatlan and Cabo San Lucas. I had been horribly horribly sick for months and was just starting to feel better. It was good to get out out and get away from it all. Swim in the pools, lay in the sun and eat. We ate... a lot... my doctor was mad when I got back, he was an old fart anyway :)

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I think I forgot how to smile for pictures for like a year? I promise you I am happy, I think I am going for a smiling with out smiling picture which just ends up looking mean. I blame top-model.
Note the sea-sickness band on my wrist, those things are a life saver!

Puerto Vallarta
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Puerto Varallta was our favorite spot. I got a massage next door to the tattoo parlor by the church. The city was nice and we had a good time walking around and seeing the old cathedrals surrounded by well, tattoo parlors. Next time we go we will go into the jungle and ride the zip-line, but being 6 months pregnant our "shore excursions" options were limited.

Next up was Mazatlan

This was not our favorite spot, it was cold and windy that day and the beach was swarming with salesmen. I bought a cheap wedding band because at this point my fingers were so "swollen" that my ring no longer fit. I was tired for feeling knocked up so I bought a new one here. Oh... and Ben went para sailing.
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You see in Mexico you don't need to fill out any wavers or insurance forms before you get thrown up in a kite and pulled around the ocean 100 feet in the air. You just need 30 bucks and an basic understanding of broken English.

It was fun to watch him, however I chose not to partake, I just sat on the beach and prayed my unborn child would still have a father by the time we were supposed to be back on the boat.

Cabo San Lucas

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We woke up very early this morning to watch the sunrise.
It was pretty, I was sleepy, but then we ate waffles and it was good.

We went snorkeling with the fishes. That was really fun though I am pretty sure everyone on our boat was concerned about me going into labor at any minute. I assured them I was fine.
I just remembered... when we were swimming to our "private island" we saw a whale! That was cool.

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I realize now that pirate stripes and pregnancy don't mix, but what did I know then? I paid two dollars to have my picture taken with an iguana with a tiny sombrero. Clearly not my chicest moment. Can we talk about the cropped gaucho pants?!? sad face.

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So that was our baby-moon, we really had a great time (regardless of my facial expressions say in pictures) I highly suggest you taking one.

Oh and one other thing...

Ben got a tattoo

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the end.

PS

It's fake.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

weekly musings of yester year: Boy meets Girl

I lived before I blogged
But I didn't write it down.
I am fired.
Enter new regular segment;

"Weekly Musings of Yester Year"

I will share stories of my life before I blogged and try and fill in holes that I have neglected PB (post blogging) Like my kids birth stories. Hopefully I have told them so many times I can still give a detailed account)

For my first segment I have chosen the most important meeting of my life..
When I met Ben.

I was siting in institute on a Tuesday evening in August of 2004. I had recently decided to stop being in a long period relationship and start play the field, Richie Cunningham style, or like they do in Utah. I had a my heart broken that summer and I was ready to be more then just somebody's girlfriend and discover who I was on my own and what was important to me. My family had just moved to Santa Barbara after selling their house in Santa Ynez. This meant I could stop sleeping on the couches of my dear friends in apartment 10 of Garden Court. Heather, Brittney, Michelle, Kim I will always be grateful to you! I worked for Riley's Flowers (no relation) on the Mesa, in their little outside flower stand. I was also a full time student at Santa Barbara City College. It was a good time for me, I had a plan and a course and then I went to institute and my plan changed a little but got a whole lot better.

Tuesday Institute began as usual with Brother Chapman, the showman teaching us about the doctrines of the gospel with his own special flare. Thirty minutes into the lesson the side door opened and there he stood. The whole room turned to see the tall stranger with blond hair looking for a seat. Bleached blond head of hair and soul patch on his chin. I looked at him and instantly knew that he was different, and not just because he was wearing a Simpson's Sopranos style T-shirt and denim cut off jeans. I remember thinking to myself, "Well that's interesting". He was good looking, very good looking but with a bad boy style that I had never been drawn to before (except once in high school but that's... lets not talk about that). He sat down behind me and the lesson continued on. I assumed that he was maybe inactive or just passing through IV and was curious why there were so many cars parked at a church building on a Tuesday night. And then it happened, he spoke. Brother Chapman asked a question about the order of resurrection. And the Stranger answered. A good answer, he was clearly knowledgeable about the gospel and its doctrine. I could feel the spirit of his testimony as he spoke with conviction about the things we believe in. I was intrigued.

I turned around in my seat (class still in session) and said, "I am sorry who are you?" He told me his name and that he had just come from BYU to attend graduate school. I told him mine and that's when I noticed his muscular arms and tan skin. (I had only dated skinny guys and had always wanted a man who could pick me up without grunting) I am fairly certain we shook hands during our brief exchange and then I turned back around and we continued to listen to the lesson.

(The professor would like to point out that he had noticed me before we spoke but had assumed the boy sitting next to me with his arm around the chair was my boyfriend, when he was in fact my brother.)

After class, cookies were served to the starving college students in the small concrete brick institute on Cordoba Road. The hall was crowded as I made my way to the kitchen past the pictured covered walls. I heard the new guy speaking to a small circle of friends. "Yeah, I am here early for math camp." I stopped and spun around facing him head on. He was tall, 6'3 and had green eyes that had a little brown in them. "Wait", I said, "Your going to Math Camp? You are a such nerd!" "I am a nerd and quite proud of it Thank you!" he said in a joking and playful way. "It's alright... I am mean" I said, "You are mean" he agreed. We both smiled at each other for a second and then he continued to tell us that Math Camp was legitimate three week long intense math refresher course before graduate classes for his doctorate in Economics started next month. We chatted for a few more minutes and I continued along my way in search of some cookies.

That night I went home and told my mom that their was a new boy in the ward, and "I was strangely attracted to him." (You have to remember, the boy had bleached hair ;)

The Proof
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The "crew" during the early days of our courtship.
I am not here, I thinking I am working at the flower stand.

Friday, September 10, 2010

the professor the expert

The professor was quoted in the local newspaper today because of a rather brilliant paper he wrote last year. Check it out.

New highway safety report says Oregon roads safer than ever

Published: Thursday, September 09, 2010, 8:44 PM Updated: Friday, September 10, 2010, 9:25 AM
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The rate of traffic deaths on Oregon roads reached its lowest point in history last year, spurred by high seat-belt use, aggressive enforcement of drunk-driving laws and the recession.

Oregon's traffic deaths plummeted 9.4 percent from 416 in 2008 to 377 in 2009, according to new report from theNational Highway Traffic Safety Administration. Washington's road fatalities dropped from 521 to 492, a 5.6 percent decline.

Although Americans drove slightly more than in 2008, traffic deaths fell 9.7 percent nationally to 33,808 – the lowest number since 1950. In 2008, an estimated 37,423 people died on the highways.

Certainly, Oregonians appear to be on the road to an even safer 2010.

As of Tuesday, following a Labor Day weekend that saw only one fatality, there were 210 reported traffic deaths this year. That's a 16 percent decline from the same period in 2009, when 249 had been recorded.

But even as Oregon Department of Transportation officials say they are aiming "to get fatalities down to zero," some experts warn that road deaths could go back up if Oregon's budget crisis forces drastic law-enforcement cuts.

Based on sheer numbers in Oregon, 1949 actually had fewer highway fatalities, with 356. But when state transportation officials looked at vehicles miles traveled, they found that the 2009 fatality rate – 1.06 for every 100 million miles – was the lowest on record.
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Vehicle miles traveled, or VMT, is a reflection of how much people are driving on Oregon roads, factoring in highway lengths, average annual daily traffic counts, and the number of days highways are open for travel.

Oregonians were driving far less in 1949,

"In 1949, the fatality rate was 6.38" per 100 million miles driven, said Troy Costales, the Oregon Department of Transportation's safety division manager. "If nothing had changed since then, Oregon would have experienced 2,217 fatalities last year alone."

Historically, road deaths and injuries tend to decline when the economy is down.

At a news conference in Washington, D.C., on Thursday, U.S. Transportation Secretary Ray LaHood cited the weak economy as a contributing factor, saying many Americans had cut back on "discretionary driving," including going out to bars and restaurants after work or on weekends.

At the same time, LaHood said cars are becoming safer and motorists are becoming increasingly safety conscious.

Costales noted that Oregon's observed seat-belt use is about 96 percent, ranking it among the top three state's in the country. "Consistent safety belt use is the single most effective way to protect people in a vehicle crash," he said.

ODOT officials also credited increased funding for Oregon State Police troopers.

OSP has been slowly restaffing its patrols after budget cuts forced the agency to lay off 35 percent of its troopers in 2003.

But with the state facing a $3 billion shortfall, state officials say OSP may have to start cutting troopers and patrols once again in 2011.

That, warns University of Oregon economist Benjamin Hansen, will likely mean a spike in traffic deaths once again.

In a newly released study entitled "Life and Death in the Fast Lane," Hansen and Greg DeAngelo, an economics professor at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in Troy, N.Y., link the 2003 trooper layoffs to a dramatics spike in traffic in deaths and severe injuries a few months later.

Drivers experience the "deterrence effects" of troopers on the highways on both an individual and communal level on the highways, Hansen said.

"When you don't see as many troopers on the roads," Hansen said, "you tend to go faster. And when everyone else is going faster, you don't want to be the slowest car on the road."

The researchers developed a formula showing that a 10 percent trooper increase per vehicle mile traveled in Oregon, Washington and Idaho from 1979 to 2005 reduced fatalities by up to 5 percent.

Jacking up traffic fines, Hansen said, may be the only way to keep fatality rates from going up if the state cuts troopers to fill the budget hole.

Still, no one sees Oregon returning to its worst years for road deaths: 1972 (737 fatalities); 1978 (722); and 1969 (714).

In Oregon, the annual highway safety report also found:

* The number of alcohol-impaired driving fatalities continued a five-year slide, dropping from 137 in 2008 to 115 in 2009.

* Speeding-related road deaths declined from 147 to 125. In 2005, there were 161.

* The number of bicyclists killed in crashes dropped slightly, from 10 in 2008 to eight in 2009. While the number of pedestrians killed on the road dropped from 51 to 35.

* Motorcycle fatalities, however, were one of the dark spots. They increased to 53 from 48 in 2008.

* After improving dramatically in 2008, the number of teenagers killed in crashes was on the rise again in 2009, climbing from 34 to 46. In 2005, 84 teens died in vehicle crashes.

-- Joseph Rose

The Associated Press contributed to this report.
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